Our reader asks: “ Hi Katie, I’m fairly new to wearing wigs and honestly have no idea how to choose a wig color. Which wig color suits me best and will help me create a natural, feminine look? -Lucia” In this article, we’ll cover: Dear Lucia, How to choose a wig color is such a […]
Ask Katie: How do I Dress Fem in Summer and Not Show Too Much Skin?
In this article, we’ll cover: Dear Kelly, You are definitely not the only person who feels this way during summer. A lot of people assume feminine summer outfits only work if you are showing lots of skin or have completely smooth legs and arms. Honestly, that is mostly pressure from social media and advertising. Real […]
A Crossdresser Shopping Guide for buying Women’s Clothes
A person carrying bright red shopping bags, wearing a white textured skirt and beige lace high heels. Shopping for women’s clothing in public can feel like a huge step! Especially at the beginning. The good news is that it gets easier the more you do it. This crossdresser shopping guide breaks down simple ways to […]
Luxury Looks for Less: Build Your En Femme Wardrobe on a Budget
Glamorous en femme wardrobe of a black satin dress and long gloves, reclining on a sofa, wearing oversized sunglasses. Looking glamorous does not have to come with a price tag. You do not need a closet filled with designer brands or an endless bank account to feel beautiful. With a little creativity, intentional shopping, and […]
How to Still Dress Sultry in Winter (MTF Clothing Tips)
A woman wearing a glossy red coat open at the chest, MTF clothing for a provocative look. Winter has a way of trying to boss us around. Hemlines drop and layers seem to pile on. The cold shouldn’t get to steal your confidence or your curves. Below are five winterproof ways to keep your look […]
Ask Katie: How can I dress feminine without wearing a Tucking Gaff?
Love dressing feminine but hate wearing gaffs? In this Ask Katie letter, we share simple, comfy styling tips to help you minimize a crotch bulge while still feeling cute, confident, and completely yourself. In this article, we’ll cover: Dear Eloise, First of all, thank you for writing in — because wow, you are definitely not […]
Ask Katie: How to create a feminine silhouette without a corset?
Creating curves doesn’t have to mean lacing up a corset—there are plenty of easier, more comfortable ways to achieve a feminine silhouette. In this article, we’ll cover: Dear Tatiana, First off, let me say you’re not alone in feeling this way—corsets can be a bit of a commitment, both in terms of comfort and practice. […]
Ask Katie: What to Know Before Buying Lingerie!
Dear Alessia, First off—how exciting that you’re ready to explore lingerie! You’re not alone in worrying about sizing; it’s one of the most common questions I hear. The good news is that with a little preparation, you can shop with much more confidence and find lingerie that makes you feel beautiful. Here are my tips […]
The Crossdresser’s Guide to Lip Gloss: Tips for Perfect Feminine Lips
When it comes to feminizing your face and adding that perfect finishing touch, few things are as iconic or as misunderstood as lip gloss for crossdressers. Whether you’re stepping out for a night on the town or simply enjoying your femme self at home, lip gloss can instantly elevate your look with shine, volume, and […]
Ask Katie: Why Do High Heels Hurt and How Can I Fix it?
Dear Gemma, You’re absolutely not alone in wondering how anyone manages to walk (let alone strut!) in high heels. Trust me — even the most seasoned stiletto lovers have had their share of sore arches and blistered toes. But the good news? There are ways to make your heels more comfortable, and it all starts […]

