As much as we may wish to be En Femme all the time, it can be quite difficult to do so if we are living dual lives. In most cases, our male selves have jobs to go to and male lives to live. But that feeling inside is always there. So what can we do when we need to have some femininity in our daily lives? Let’s call this our “Stealth Dressing Guide,” as we are going to tell you what will work best under that business suit or pretty much any male clothing, letting your little secret feel amazing and leaving your Femme side satisfied. These are six items that you can wear under your clothes without having to worry:
- Garter Belts
- Body Shapers
- Sports Bras
Let’s go a little deeper…
Stockings – One of the most common items worn under your suit or male clothes are stockings and pantyhose. They are probably the easiest to hide under your male clothes because once you have on pants and socks, the stockings would be virtually invisible to anyone around you.
If you want to be a bit more daring, a bodystocking can give you a neck to toe all over sexy feeling. This would work best when you are in a suit and tie as the tie and closed collar will be sure to hide what’s going on underneath.
Garter Belts – A great companion to having on some stockings underneath your suit are garter belts. You can have on a nice lace garter belt with the garters pulling up your stockings and it will feel so good.
Panties/Gaffs – Panties or gaffs are fairly easy to hide as well. You can wear them strictly as your underwear for the day or in the case of a gaff, you can wear that against your skin and throw a pair of boxer shorts or some form of male undergarment over it to further hide the gaff. The good thing about having the gaff on is that since it is made to be tight on you, it will hide well.
Panties are a lot of fun to have on underneath your male clothes. I mean who doesn’t want to feel some nice silk or lace materials against their skin that we can’t get with male underwear?
Body Shapers – This is one of the trickier items to wear under your male clothes as a corset or certain other body shapers can become noticeable. Many corsets are steel boned which depending on the structure, can leave quite the footprint. A latex tummy trimmer is a great exception to the rule as it does not have any boning and will flatten your tummy. It will have you at ease knowing you have on some fun shapewear without feeling like you are exposing any boning or thickness that you may get from other shapewear. You may get asked if you’ve been working out but that isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
A girdle is another shapewear item to have on. It will flatten your tummy and also offer you a way to have some fun femme items going on under your clothes. A girdle with garters is another great choice, as you can attach some stockings and have a nice feeling going on from your waist to your feet. You can still have on panties or a gaff under the girdle too, so it’s a win all around.
Lingerie – Lingerie possibilities are pretty endless. The great thing about lingerie in most cases is due to their fabric makeup, they are very thin and easily hidden under a suit or other male clothes. Camisoles are great as they are like wearing an undershirt. Slips that go down to your thighs are another great choice as once your shirt is tucked into your pants, it’s hidden away.
A teddy is a fun choice to go with as depending on the style, you can incorporate garters and stockings and be En Femme from your chest down to your toes under your suit. Just be sure that the cups on the teddy or other lingerie items don’t have any underwire support as they can sometimes protrude out of your shirt depending on their size.
Sports Bras – The one issue you could run into wearing a bra is if someone were to say pat you on the back is that they could feel the strap. Plus, depending on the makeup of the bra (underwire or large cups), it can show through your shirt a bit. A perfect solution is a sports bra as its tightness will help to hide it and you don’t have to worry as much about it jutting out.
Because male clothing is a lot more concealing than women’s clothing, your work clothes or even your day to day clothes can offer some great coverage while keeping your girly undergarments secret. With the ability to do this, there is no reason we can’t add a little Femme into our daily lives.
Do you wear girly items under your work clothes? What are your go-to items to wear under your suit and tie? We want to hear from you? Email us at [email protected] or by messaging us on our Facebook page.
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