Eye Candy of the Month: Jasmine

Let’s start by telling everyone where you are from?

I have lived all over the US and in Germany. I currently live in North Georgia, near

Atlanta.

When did you first start dressing and how did it come about?

I can remember putting on a pair of girl shoes around 10 years old and just loving it. I also put on lipstick and got a big kick out of it. Then after college (early 80s) the urge to feminize

returned and resulted in my wearing nail polish. I wore it at home but not out in public. A few years later I was occasionally shaving my legs, wearing panty hose, and heels. However, that did not last very long before my desire to feminize faded away until 2016 when it came roaring back with a vengeance. Now, I wear makeup and dress up regularly but still do not go out as much as I like.

How did you come up with your Femme name?

I thought it was a pretty name, and I went with it.

How often do you dress?

I dress up twice a week, usually on Fridays and Saturdays. However, I rarely go out. I hope to go out much more frequently in the future. The times I have gone out I have received compliments from strangers on what I was wearing and the purse I had at the time.

Are you married/in a relationship? If yes, are you able to share your female self with your partner?

Yes, I am married, and my wife is ok with me dressing up but is not a huge fan of my going out. So, I usually only go out when she is away which is not very often. However, she does not object if I do.

Tell us what goes into getting the perfect photo?

I cannot honestly say I know what goes into a perfect photo since I am not sure I have taken any.

What are some of your favorite outfits/fashions?

I like long dresses as they help hide my unshapely body when I go out. I have two leather outfits that I really like as well. Since I do enjoy showing off my legs I have some leather skirts and some slightly above the knee dresses.

Stockings or pantyhose?

Pantyhose definitely.

Heels or flats? 

Heels. All my dress shoes are heels with heel heights of 3 to 5 inches. However, during warm weather flat sandals/flip flops. I like to show off my painted toenails.

Favorite places to go when dressed?

When I go out I like to go into all kinds of stores and also check out some local shops. I really enjoy just walking around and demonstrating my femininity with the way I look and how I carry myself.

Go to accessories for a night out?

I do not really have any since I have never gone out at night.

Who is/are your female role model(s) and why?

My primary role models have been two crossdressers: Juliette Noir and Heidi Phox. Both are gorgeous and truly have the crossdressing thing down. I have been to their internet sites and learned so much.

Tell us some fun facts about yourself. What are your hobbies (either when dressed or not), likes, things you do in your spare time, or anything else you would like to share?

I read a great deal of spiritually oriented books to enhance my faith as I seek to become a more compassionate loving person. I read other history related books as well.

Any stories you would like to share about yourself and your journey?

I am always surprised and caught off guard when I am out at some store, and I get complimented by a woman about my dress, jewelry, or purse. This has happened a couple of times.

If you have social media, what is the best way for others to follow you?

I am not on social media.

Before we go, would you like to send a message to your fellow girls out there or a closing statement.

I guess when I go out I do so primarily for validation since I spend so much time putting on make-up and getting ready. My goal is to blend in and go unnoticed and when that happens I call it a tremendous success. I am still incredibly nervous when I go out but once I am out there I really enjoy it. So, my only advice is if you are like me and apprehensive about going out, just do it! You will be glad you did.

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