Our Eye Candy of the Month is Bobbi Vance
We’re so thrilled that Bobbi Vance agreed to share her life story and some gorgeous pictures with us. Bobbi has appeared in a good number of her picture contests and always places very high. Take a look at some of her crossdressing pictures and it’s not hard to see why. Not only does she dress impeccably but she has a slim female shape to die for with gorgeous legs. Let find out more about Bobbi….
Let’s start by telling everyone where you are from?
I was born in Pennsylvania in 1944. Then in 1945, we moved to Southern California. We stayed in California until 1962 and then we moved to Las Vegas. I graduated from Las Vegas High School in 1962. We have been here ever since then.
When did you first start dressing and how did it come about?
It is hard to say when I started dressing. The first thing I remember is that when I was about 5 or 6 years old, just before I went to bed, I would take a shower. My Mom would wash her bra, and it was drying in the bathroom. I do not know why, but when I got out of the shower, I put it on. I then put my bed clothes on and went to bed. A couple of hours later, my Mom came into the bedroom and turned on the light. She then handed me another one of my shirts, and said for me to put the new shirt on. I guess she knew what she was doing, because she took her bra back and gave me my shirt. She never said anything about it. So I guess my desire to crossdress started very early.
How did you come up with your Femme name?
How did iI come up with ” Bobbie Vance”. Well, my first name is Robert/Bob.I did not know what name to pick for a last name. I had a friend, named Vance. so I just took it and came up with “Bobbie Vance:.
How often do you dress?
I do not dress very much. I very seldom went out , dressed as Bobbie Vance, as I had other relations living in Vegas. I did not want any of them to see me. My wife knew about my dressing. Since I did not go outside I started to take my own photos at home, with my self timer camera. My wife would take all the photos, help me to get ready. She would take 150 to 300 photos each time. In 2014, I was voted into the Vanity Club, and I am still a member. When I joined the Vanity Club, they had some events in Vegas, so I started to go out more often.
Are you married/in a relationship? If yes, are you able to share your female self with your partner?
I am married, and as I already said previously my wife helps me every time I take photos at home. She also would go with me when I would buy new femme clothes. Now she helps me with internet buying.
Tell us what goes into getting the perfect photo?
The perfect Photo. Well, most of the time I ask my wife which outfit should I wear for each occasion when she is taking all of the photos when I get all dressed. If she spots something wrong with the outfit, she will stop me and fix it. So now just about every photo I will show you, my wife took.
What are some of your favorite outfits/fashions?
I like skirts and blouses. I really like short skirts so most of my legs show. I have my favorite saying. ” If you got it , You have to flaunt it”. So I try to do that. That is my favorite thing. I simply adore pencils dresses and skirts. I sometimes wear long dresses with a slit on the side so I can show my leg. My wife takes those leg showing photos. Rember, I said, if you got it, you have to flaunt it.
Stockings or pantyhose?
Heels or flats?
I like shoes with heels. I do not like flats.
Favorite places to go when dressed?
I am a Vanity Club Member, so I try to go to some of the Vanity Club events that take place in different states. I also like to go to the River City Gems Events in Sacramento. They are just great. Some are four days long. Dressed for all four days!
Who is/are your female role model(s) and why?
Three of my friends are: Donna Kelly , Heidi Phox, and Michelle Popov. Michelle used to be the President of the Vanity Club for a number of years. They have helped me a lot to do better when I am dressed. I really appreciate all they have done for me.
Any stories you would like to share about yourself and your journey?
Something funny did happen to me, well you may think so, but I was a little upset. A couple of years ago, I was invited to a get together in Fremont Cal. I rented a Motel Room and got all dressed up, as this was a really nice event. I did a super job on my make up. I really looked good. I went to the Event and had a really great time. We went to an early dinner, then I went back to my motel. I got there and inserted my plastic room key into the lock, but it would not work. I tried, and tried and tried, but it would not open. I had to go to the front desk to get a new one. I handed my bad room key to the desk clerk, and said that the key does not work and I need a new one. She said “OK”, and asked for my ID. I handed her my Nevada Driver License. She looked at my photo on the license, and said “I am sorry ma’am but I need your husband to come up and get it”. I tried to explain I was one and the same person but she didn’t believe me!
Eventually, I had to ask her to fetch the manager. She came back with the manager who asked me what the problem was. I explained the issue again and even held the ID against my face but still, both the clerk and the manager insisted I go and get my husband to collect the spare key since it was his ID. Eventually, I took my wig off so they could see that I was one and the same. Both the manager and the clerk kept apologizing. The manager explained that with the wig on, they thought I was a real lady. They just kept saying how sorry they were and handed me my new room key. I was upset the whole time..
If you have social media, what is the best way for others to follow you?
I belong to the Flickr group, and have many photos on it. I am not sure if you can reach my Flickr account, but I think you might get it if you type flickr address: WWW.flickr.com/photos/bobbievnc/