Being crossdressers usually means keeping two closets. One for our male clothes and one for our femme clothes. In that femme closet will likely be an assortment of items, some necessary and some for a bit of fun, but if you’re new to crossdressing you may not yet be sure of the key crossdressing underwear pieces you might need. This post has been designed to talk through a number of essential items that should appear in your crossdressing closet, so when you’re dressing en femme, you have what you need under your clothes to make you feel fabulously feminine.
Crossdressing Underwear For The Perfect En Femme Wardrobe
Undergarments are an important part of any crossdresser’s overall look. Even if you don’t have any underwear on show, it’s the perfect foundation for the rest of your feminine clothing, and let’s be honest, there’s nothing quite like the feel of femme undergarments under your clothes. Whether you prefer silk, lace, or even cotton, if you invest in the right underwear, there’s no doubt it will feel wonderfully soft against your body and cling in all the right places.
So without further ado, if you’re looking to build your undergarments for your crossdressing closet, here are Glamour Boutique’s must-haves.
Let’s start with the most important undergarment of which you’ll probably want the most of – crossdresser gaffs and panties. For those unfamiliar, a gaff is a specialty undergarment made for males to tuck and flatten their genitalia, giving a more feminine appearance, especially in more fitted clothing. Glamour Boutique have been making their own gaffs for almost two decades now, and we know they are a tried and true way to give you that flat front for the ultimate femme look. For those of you who don’t want to tuck but still want that luxurious feel of panties against your body (who doesn’t), there are always options. You can get panties in any store, from Target to Victoria’s Secret and you can explore different types of panties, from thongs to French knickers and everything in between.
Like panties, bras are a staple for any crossdresser’s underwear closet. For those of you who want to use breast forms, a pocket bra is what you are looking for. A pocket bra essentially does what it says – it has pockets stitched into the bra that will hold and secure your breast forms in place. This means you don’t have to worry about using adhesive to stick breast forms to your skin. Putting on a pocket bra and adding your breast forms is such a great feeling and worth a try at least once to see what you think. Many like the convenience! However, even if you don’t want breast forms, it doesn’t mean you can’t wear a bra anyway. Like panties, you can get a bra in a lot of places and you can even order online if you’re a stealth crossdresser. A bra under your male clothes is always a great feeling and a fun little secret for yourself.
Shapers come in many forms. They are designed to help you achieve that gorgeous hourglass figure we all crave. There are shapers that cinch in your waist or some that create bigger hips and booties. Let’s look at some of our go-to items.
Corsets For Men
Corsets are the best way to get that desired hourglass figure. With steel bones and tight lacing, there really is no better way to cinch in that waist. Corsets not only can train your waist but offer an elegant and sexy look for the bedroom. It is also one of the only crossdresser undergarments you can also use on the outside as a part of an outfit.
Padded Panties and Hip Pads
Looking to achieve a Kardashian-inspired butt? Or perhaps you really want some shapely hips? Look no further than padded panties and hip pads. As genetic males, we don’t have wider hips and fuller butts like our female counterparts. The padding will help you get there and finish off the hourglass figure when you add it to your shapewear like a corset, girdle or tummy trimmer.
We’d struggle to find anyone who didn’t like the feel of sexy lingerie on their skin. There’s almost nothing as femme-feeling as some fancy lingerie. There are quite a number of options if you’re looking for lingerie, it’s just a case of picking your favorites.
A silk robe is a great item to have as you can wear it over another piece of lingerie or bra and panties, or you can wear it with nothing else underneath and let that lovely silk glide over your skin.
Teddies and Babydolls for Crossdressers
While they can be made with other materials, for us it’s all about the lace baby dolls. Lace feels so good against the skin and they’re great for making you feel instantly sexy. This is another way that a stealth crossdresser can keep a little dirty secret under their male clothes and feel their femme selves while at work.
Like the robe, a nice silk nightie is just a fantastic item to have in your crossdresser closet. Rolling around in bed as the silk is on you is such an amazing feeling and you will get the best sleep of your life.
If you’re having some fun in the bedroom, add a pair of stockings to your lingerie and put together a whole outfit for some seductive bedroom activities. Stockings will go with just about any lingerie set up and you can add to it by getting a sexy garter belt. These are also a great option for wearing out and about too, stockings are sure to give you some added feminine confidence under your favorite skirt.
So, whether you’re looking to extend your crossdressing wardrobe with comfortable essentials or sexy staples, with so many items to choose from we hope you find everything you need from Glamour Boutique. We fully expect you to fill your crossdresser closet with some beautiful crossdressing undergarments and taking your game to the next level. Bedrooms beware!
What are your go-to undergarments? What is on your wish list for your crossdressing closet? Let us know. Send us some pics, we love to see our customers’ en femme glow-ups! Email us at [email protected] or by messaging us on our Facebook page.