Dear Alessia,

First off—how exciting that you’re ready to explore lingerie! You’re not alone in worrying about sizing; it’s one of the most common questions I hear. The good news is that with a little preparation, you can shop with much more confidence and find lingerie that makes you feel beautiful. Here are my tips to get you started:

1. Take Your Measurements: Grab a soft measuring tape and write down your bust, waist, and hip measurements. These numbers are your best friend when it comes to online shopping. Compare them to each store’s size chart (they do vary!) before ordering.

2. Start with Adjustable Styles: Pieces like bras with multiple hooks, lingerie with stretchy lace, or babydoll slips give you more wiggle room in sizing. They’re forgiving and easier to fit than structured corsets or rigid bodysuits.

3. Think About Shapewear: If you wear padded panties, breast forms, or a cincher, take those into account when choosing sizes. For example, measure yourself with your breast forms if you plan to wear them under your lingerie.

4. Begin Simple: For your first purchase, a classic chemise, teddy, or slip is a safe bet. These styles tend to fit a range of body shapes and are less stressful than worrying about bra cup sizes right away.

5. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask: Many retailers (including us at Glamour Boutique!) are happy to answer sizing questions. Reaching out can save you time, stress, and disappointment.

Remember, lingerie is about how it makes you feel. Even if the fit isn’t perfect the first time, you’re still taking a beautiful step into expressing your femininity. Each purchase is part of your journey, and before long, you’ll get a feel for what styles and sizes suit you best.

You deserve to feel sexy, confident, and comfortable in your lingerie. So take a breath, take those measurements, and have fun shopping—you’ll thank yourself the moment you slip into that first piece.

With love and lace,

Katie

Remember if you have any questions on the subject of crossdressing, Katie can help. From relationship advice to tucking to sizing. Ask away and Katie will gladly answer all emails sent in to [email protected] Make sure to add ‘For Katie’ into the Subject Line.