Jamie is all about fearless femininity—from rocking bodycon dresses in the summer to perfecting her signature sultry look. This month, she opens up about her journey, her femme style staples, and the thrill of stepping out as her true self.
Let’s start by telling everyone where you are from?
New Jersey
When did you first start dressing and how did it come about?
I have always had a thing for women’s fashion. I have been so fortunate to be able to explore it further since expressing my curiosity to my wife a few years ago.
How did you come up with your Femme name?
It is close to my given name.
How often do you dress?
I strive for an outing once a month. Whether it’s somewhere extravagant for a whole weekend as Jamie or just an afternoon/evening of running errands and getting some shopping in.
Are you married/in a relationship? If yes, are you able to share your female self with your partner?
I am married. I am beyond blessed that she is accepting of Jamie. We share clothes, shop for each other, and plan trips.
Tell us what goes into getting the perfect photo?
The perfect photo is about seeing none of my male self. I am very critical of my appearance. Whether the look is geared towards a dinner date, a blend in to daily life while running errands, or a slutty night out look, it has to be perfect. I want to ensure I am as close to passing as possible. And absolutely no makeup smudges or wardrobe malfunctions.
What are some of your favorite outfits/fashions?
I am all about a tight pair of jeans, sweater, and boots in the winter. In the summer all bets are off. I go for the shortest shorts, and skimpiest bodycon dresses I can find. In summer, less is more. 😉 I always dress ultra femme!
Stockings or pantyhose?
Stockings, unless my outfit is too short. Then I wear pantyhose. Either way, I always wear one of the two.
Heels or flats?
Always heels. 4 Inches or more, no exceptions.
Favorite places to go when dressed?
I find great joy in my public appearances. I enjoy going anywhere and everywhere. Some days consist of nothing more than mundane errands bouncing around retail stores checking off my to do list. Then there is my nightlife. The casinos, shows, and bars. I always look forward to going out!! There is not a place that I will not go. I enjoy it all equally as it enables me to dress for so many occasions. I often start with something casual during the day such as jeans and when it’s time to go out for the night I change into a body con dress before heading out again.
Go to accessories for a night out?
My three staples are earrings, heels, and nails. Long killer nails. A fab manicure goes a long way!! If I am typing on my phone and can’t hear the click of my nails, they are not long enough!!!!
Who is/are your female role model(s) and why?
I don’t have one. Should I??
Tell us some fun facts about yourself. What are your hobbies (either when dressed or not), likes, things you do in your spare time, or anything else you would like to share?
I always have a mani/pedi. Even in male mode. It’s a fun way to be expressive. They may not always be long, but always done. And if I don’t like it or get tired of the color, I change it. It’s not permanent, that’s the best part.
Any stories you would like to share about yourself and your journey?
I began to dress during COVID and found great comfort in being able to wear a mask in public. Now that I have perfected my look I feel as though I slay it and I am very confident in my appearance. I enjoy the looks I get. I want the attention. I enjoy being dressed just a little over the top for the occasion.
As a guy I would not get a second glance. As Jamie, I see how the guys stare. They make it so obvious too. I see how they look back as we pass in the store aisle. They intently watch as Jamie bends over to put something in her grocery cart. There’s such a rush to that. Then there are the flirtatious men. Some are so confident and have smooth game. They are fun to interact with. Those guys get a cute smirk and a wave as they get denied and we part ways. Then there are those creepy guys who give you that awkward feeling while telling you how beautiful you are. It’s not as flattering.
Women however, are always just plain kind. They will lowkey compliment my shoes, my dress, or hair. The genuine support is overwhelming. Overall, I LOVE the attention I receive as Jamie.
It’s such a thrilling feeling.
If you have social media, what is the best way for others to follow you?
I am on Instagram: Jamie_drag
