Let’s start by telling everyone where you are from?
Hello all, I am Victoria and live in a small town on the west coast of The Netherlands
When did you first start dressing and how did it come about?
That’s a really good question, I can’t remember exactly when I started dressing or became interested in it. I think it was in my teenage years, over 20 years ago, that I became interested in it, while browsing the net.
And started slow in my early adult years, until I got a girlfriend who was Trans herself. With her I explored it a bit more and dressed occasionally. After we broke up, I purged though, like many of us do. But it kept itching and not long after, I started again.
When I met my current wife, I shared this with her in the early phases of the relationship and she was luckily on board with it, so that was really great. And in the first COVID year, I met Lady Lux for a “Transmakeover” and that was like magic happened on multiple levels.
Not only for the first time, I felt really really really great how I looked as Victoria, but also we had a great connection and became friends shortly after. It also made me realise that it wasn’t just a fetish or something like that, it is part of my gender identity and as such I identify as Gender Fluid.
How did you come up with your Femme name?
I liked the name Victoria and it is a useful one as well 😉
How often do you dress?
It depends what you call dress I guess, with a wig and full make-up it’s not that often lately. However I can use less make-up these days to become more passable as I had my facial hair lasered.
Also I feel good already and in touch with my feminine side, by just wearing simpler female clothes or even just androgynous ones. And a lip stick/gloss and mascara is easily added.
So I guess if you call dressing just a basic female outfit, then it’s often. Especially as my workout clothes are all feminine.
Are you married/in a relationship? If yes, are you able to share your female self with your partner?
I am married and able to share and be Victoria around my wife. I think that’s really important, that you can be yourself with your partner and don’t hold secrets for each other.
Tell us what goes into getting the perfect photo?
A nice pair of heels, a good dress, nice wig. Nahh that’s all dressing. Happiness is what counts and makes the photo come to live. If you don’t feel it from the inside, the outside won’t show it either.
What are some of your favorite outfits/fashions?
Mostly tight dresses with a nice pair of high heels. But I also love my workout outfits.
Stockings or pantyhose?
Definitely pantyhose, especially in these days when it’s a bit colder. Also nice underneath a pair of jeans against the cold.
Heels or flats?
Heels when at home or going to a party or a quick stroll outside. Flats of course for the longer walks.
Favorite places to go when dressed?
Lux, a restaurant and/or a nice park.
Go to accessories for a night out
Well really a night out is something still on my bucket list, planning to realize that this year. But of course a nice hand bag, bracelets, necklace and sparkly earrings, they are pierced for a reason. 😉
Who is/are your female role model(s) and why?
Lady Lux ( https://www.instagram.com/the_lady_lux/ ) mostly is. She is not only elegant, a great person and an awesome friend, she also knows much about not only the outer beauty, but also the inner. And she really helped bring Victoria to her potential.
Tell us some fun facts about yourself. What are your hobbies (either when dressed or not), likes, things you do in your spare time, or anything else you would like to share?
Well I am first and foremost a gamer, thinking about getting the Razer Kraken Kitty V2 Pro – Quartz headset for Victoria. She is also a gamer 😉 Besides that, I love hiking and going out for a stroll with our dog.
Any stories you would like to share about yourself and your journey?
Like most, it has had its ups and downs. Thrown everything out and bought everything new. I think the most important things happened for me when I wasn’t exactly looking for them, that’s when I met the most awesome people in my life.
If you have social media, what is the best way for others to follow you?
If you wish to follow me, you can do so on Instagram: @victoria85s
Before we go, would you like to send a message to your fellow girls out there or a closing statement.
Carpe Diem et Noctem. Seize the day and night! Let go and be yourself. You are awesome!
Listen to yourself and what gives you energy and happiness and pursue your dreams. Life is too short, to not live it to the fullest.
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